Tuesday, April 3, 2012

CARRIE KONG MAY YEE - DAD YEARNS FOR YOU

Today is 4th of April, 2012 and tomorrow is Qing Ming or All Souls Day. Dad still remembers you although you have left us suddenly in 2007. I still and will forever miss you, my greatest daughter May Yee. Hope you are now happy with God in heaven, free from all sorrows you had.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Chance to relive memories of your childhood!

My dearest daughter May Yee

Although you are no longer with us since June 2007, I still think of you every now & then. Today, dad went to Berjaya Times Square at Level 7 to enquire about copying DVD from old video tapes I took when you were not married yet.

This is my chance to see you again as if you are still around. I am eagerly waiting to view the DVD soon.

May God be with you & your son.

Always in my mind,

Papa

Thursday, December 11, 2008

May Yee's 30th birthday today


My dearest daughter May Yee


Although you have left me since July 16, 2007 memories of you are still fresh in my mind. I will always remember you as my darling daughter although we had communication problems. I hope you & son are now with God with eternal life.


Believe me, I miss you alot.


Your loving dad


Raymond

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Tragic demise of my beloved daughter Carrie Kong




I had three pretty and intelligent daughters. Suddenly on 16th July 2007 I was shocked to learn of the demise of my eldest daughter, Kong May Yee, who had only been married for less than two years.

On that unforgetable morning at around 8.30 am I was as usual at office waiting to start another day. Suddenly my hand phone rang & my mother was very emotional & weeping at the other end. She brought my world down when she cried out that my daughter had suddenly passed away.

I just couldn’t believe my ears, hoping that it was not true. She said my son-in-law went to take his bath as usual while my daughter was sitting at the sofa in the hall waiting for him to come out of the bathroom. According to her hubby, she was playful with him before he went into the bathroom to take bath.

Then her hubby called out to my daughter to brushe her teeth & have her bath. There was no answer. He quickly went near her & saw her face looked pale & lifeless. He panicked & felt her pulse, then quickly performed artificial respiration on her hoping to get her up.

Her hubby then realized that something very serious had happened to May Yee & then only called the ambulance. I guessed by the time the ambulance came, she was already gone.

I am extremely sad that I didn’t have the last chance to speak to her nor my mother. May Yee is a good girl although sad to say, I didn’t treat her well. We seldom talk but deep down in my heart, I loved her very much. She treated her grandma better than a daughter to her mum. My mum had single handedly brought her up since she was a baby & hence the great attachment my daughter had for her.

This was due to her natural mum who didn’t care at all about her until she graduated but then it was too late as the hatred May Yee had against her couldn’t be erased. I was told by my mum that there were occasions whereby her mum abused her like pulling her ears when she asked for more food and hitting her nose.

May Yee have suffered much in her childhood & felt inferior to her other siblings. This was understandable as she thought no one loved her except for her granny. I would agree to a great extent her feelings. However, she proved herself capable in all the jobs she held, the last being Assistant Manager of HVD.

She brought hope & cheers to her grandma, showered her with love and affection. Frankly, I admire her even now. I dare say, she is the most lovable child & I regretted for not caring much about her.

She is gone but shall always be remembered in my heart. I hope God shall bless her and her unborn son in HEAVEN and pray that she becomes an Angel.

However, I am puzzled over her death which remains a mystery till now. Hospital HUKM has not informed cause of her death. According to the gynecologist who attended to her, May Yee was healthy. Therefore, readers, what do you think was the cause of her death; she was less than 29 years of age when she passed away? Was it really due to illness (??) or unknown reason? Her death shall forever remain a mystery. Only God knows what actually happened on that day. Readers, please share with me what could be the reason for her early demise.

Every time I think of her, my heart sinks & aches. I hope she’ll come to me in my dreams to tell me what had really happened.

Lastly, may God bless her & her child.

Love always,

From Papa